What makes a woman want to sleep with a man? Is it true that a chap can laugh a woman into bed? Does he need to be tall, dark and handsome to stand any chance at all? Today, in the second extract from the new book Why Women Have Sex, by psychologists Cindy Meston and David Buss, we reveal the features that make a man appeal to a woman, and why, are far more fascinating and complex than you could imagine
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If you want to drive your man wild in the bedroom we've got the tips for you. You've heard of little things called erogenous zones before, but do you know where they are on a man's body? Some of them are obvious - if you're not touching those areas you're definitely doing it wrong - but some of them may surprise you. Kissing boosts levels of dopamine in the brain, a neurotransmitter that boosts desire and the reward system in the brain. If you've ever had someone play with your ears and liked it, then it makes sense your man would like it too. Instead try sucking, licking, cupping or gently squeezing them, sex coach Charlie Glickman suggests. And the nape of his neck in the best place to focus, according to a study published in the journal Ergonomics. In a recent survey for the journal Cortex, men admitted that nipples were one of their top spots for stimulation.
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Obviously, you know how to make your partner feel good in the bedroom. The good news is, you have what you need already. Apply a naughty nibble, a barely-there brush of the, lips or a tantalizing tongue wiggle to the right area of his body and he'll hit the ceiling, thinking, "Wow, how'd she do that?
We know that there are tons of things that get a man going in bed, but there are also those little things you do that burn a sexy hole into his memory forever. We reached out to Men's Health readers and other real guys to tell us all the things women do in bed that drives them absolutely bonkers. Check out their responses below, and think of it as some helpful inspiration in case you're feeling less-than-creative lately. Bonus: They're all things that will make you feel sexy as hell, too. It was totally unexpected—and that's why it was awesome. Unzipping it and seeing her lacy lingerie peek out was unbelievably hot.